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Man on Top
Man on Top, is by far the most common sexual position yet. Some think this is boring and old hat, but it does
really have some redeeming qualities when it comes to pleasure. I know it still rocks my world! So, lets discuss.
The missionary position allows for direct clitoral stimulation by hands or vibrators, our favorite being the Pocket
Rocket because it's small so it doesn't get in the way and packs a lot of punch. This can be very important
because some women can only reach orgasm by simultaneous vaginal and clitoral stimulation. So you’re sure
to please.
It allows you to look at your lover. This is really great great because eye contact is so important. By looking
directly into your lovers eyes, while being fucked or fucking is really very exciting. It almost brings you to a new
level of stimulation and erotica. Plus, you can both easily kiss each other without having to contort your upper
bodies too much in order to reach one another.
Your woman can also control how deeply she is being penetrated. This can be achieved by hollowing the back,
or curving her pelvis up toward the penis. Hollowing the back limits how far the penis can go in and curving the
pelvis up allows for deeper penetration.
The woman can easily move her legs in different positions adding more pleasure to her and her partner.
There are many variations on, unfortunately, what some believe has become a boring, old hat position. The
only bad side to this position, is that the man has to do all the work. This position is a tried and true classic for a
reason. There are so many more ways to make this position really hot, so hot that it may become your favorite.
So let's explore...
This position doesn't have to be boring, it can actually be alot of fun! My boyfriend and I have found that the
Liberator Shapes Ramp and Wedge Combo makes this position more comfortable, more intimate and
depending how you combine the two, a lot of fun. As I said above, one of the down sides to this position is the
fact that the man has to do all the work. By incorporating the use of the Liberator Shapes, the lower half of your
body can be angled up in such a way that your man doesn't have to feel like he's doing push ups the entire
time you're having intercourse. There are also many combinations of these cushions that allow the two of you
to not only be more comfortable, but more intimate as well...and that's ALWAYS a good thing. Some positions
allow for deeper penetration, others support more shallow penetration and still more just make this position fun.
And the good thing is that they're very affordable and last quite a long time.
Speaking of deeper penetration, for those women that are trying to conceive, the Liberator Shapes can help
you get comfortably in positions that allow for that deeper penetration you need, giving the sperm an area to
sort of pool around in near the cervical entrance! This helpful link should explain things further.
So see, the old Missionary, Man on Top Position is not boring and is definitely not 'old hat'. It's a position that
my boyfriend and I get into just about every time we have sex because it really is one of the best positions to
get into.
Man on Top, is by far the most common sexual position yet. Some think this is boring and old hat, but it does
really have some redeeming qualities when it comes to pleasure. I know it still rocks my world! So, lets discuss.
The missionary position allows for direct clitoral stimulation by hands or vibrators, our favorite being the Pocket
Rocket because it's small so it doesn't get in the way and packs a lot of punch. This can be very important
because some women can only reach orgasm by simultaneous vaginal and clitoral stimulation. So you’re sure
to please.
It allows you to look at your lover. This is really great great because eye contact is so important. By looking
directly into your lovers eyes, while being fucked or fucking is really very exciting. It almost brings you to a new
level of stimulation and erotica. Plus, you can both easily kiss each other without having to contort your upper
bodies too much in order to reach one another.
Your woman can also control how deeply she is being penetrated. This can be achieved by hollowing the back,
or curving her pelvis up toward the penis. Hollowing the back limits how far the penis can go in and curving the
pelvis up allows for deeper penetration.
The woman can easily move her legs in different positions adding more pleasure to her and her partner.
There are many variations on, unfortunately, what some believe has become a boring, old hat position. The
only bad side to this position, is that the man has to do all the work. This position is a tried and true classic for a
reason. There are so many more ways to make this position really hot, so hot that it may become your favorite.
So let's explore...
This position doesn't have to be boring, it can actually be alot of fun! My boyfriend and I have found that the
Liberator Shapes Ramp and Wedge Combo makes this position more comfortable, more intimate and
depending how you combine the two, a lot of fun. As I said above, one of the down sides to this position is the
fact that the man has to do all the work. By incorporating the use of the Liberator Shapes, the lower half of your
body can be angled up in such a way that your man doesn't have to feel like he's doing push ups the entire
time you're having intercourse. There are also many combinations of these cushions that allow the two of you
to not only be more comfortable, but more intimate as well...and that's ALWAYS a good thing. Some positions
allow for deeper penetration, others support more shallow penetration and still more just make this position fun.
And the good thing is that they're very affordable and last quite a long time.
Speaking of deeper penetration, for those women that are trying to conceive, the Liberator Shapes can help
you get comfortably in positions that allow for that deeper penetration you need, giving the sperm an area to
sort of pool around in near the cervical entrance! This helpful link should explain things further.
So see, the old Missionary, Man on Top Position is not boring and is definitely not 'old hat'. It's a position that
my boyfriend and I get into just about every time we have sex because it really is one of the best positions to
get into.
Woman on Top
Woman on Top, is where the man gets to rest and the woman does all the work. What’s really nice about the
woman being on top is that men like to watch and there’s a whole lot for him to see from his point of view.
Besides, now that he’s not so busy thrusting, he has time and free hands for other things like fondling his lovers
breasts or clitoris, which is greatly appreciated.
This is also really great for the women because she has total control over how deeply and how hard she is
penetrated. We women of the 21st century like control. She can also position herself in many ways that can
stimulate all different parts of her vagina.
The most common version of the woman on top position is with the man lying flat on his back, while the woman
kneels down and straddles his penis, with her knees on either side of his hips. With the woman in this position
she can control the focus of stimulation by leaning forward or backward. Leaning forward gives more clitoral
stimulation and leaning backward increases vaginal stimulation. This also allows for that all important eye
contact and kiss ability. She also has the option of being a little dominant, holding her lovers arms down while
riding him. The man benefits from this too because his hands can wonder fondling her breasts or just simply
enjoying the show being put on for him.
The woman can also straddle her partner the same way, but backwards, facing away from her lover. This is
very stimulating for the man, because the more the woman bends forward towards her lovers toes, her
penetrated vagina and anus are totally exposed for the man to see. And if the woman is into a little anal play,
the man can reach up and tickle or lightly rub her anus. But most importantly, there is more pressure put on the
penis which is added pleasure.
Personally, I really like this position because I get to control how deeply and how hard I’m penetrated. I also like
to put on a show for my man, so I believe it gets rave reviews from the both of us. This little bit of domination is
quite a turn on too and it's really awesome because there's plenty of room for me to use my Hitachi Magic
Wand and my boyfriend loves to see me have an orgasm while riding him and using the Wand. It's intense
pleasure for me and a totally hot show for him!
My boyfriend and I love to spice up this position with the Cube and Wedge Combo Liberator Shapes. Position
the Cube on the floor at next the bed and take the Wedge and put it on the bed at the edge. Then the man can
sit down, putting his butt on the Cube and lay back against the Wedge on the bed. This positions him very
comfortably in angled up position allowing him to see all the action clearly, giving him visual stimulation, but also
keeps him close to you for that intimate contact. This combination rocks for us women because we can very
easily straddle our guys with our feet very comfortably on the floor. By using the cube, it doesn't take us a ton
of leg muscles to ride him like a porn star because we're not putting undue pressure on our legs. The cube is at
the proper height for most of us to be very comfortable. You can easily ride him facing him or facing away.
Yummy!
The Cube is also great for many other spicy sex position combinations. Your man can also sit straight up on the
Cube, not leaning against anything and then you straddle him, either facing him or facing away. Either way, the
same thing goes, you're both very comfortably seated, so as the woman being on top, you have easy control in
riding him. This offers the most closeness and intimacy.
Woman on Top, is where the man gets to rest and the woman does all the work. What’s really nice about the
woman being on top is that men like to watch and there’s a whole lot for him to see from his point of view.
Besides, now that he’s not so busy thrusting, he has time and free hands for other things like fondling his lovers
breasts or clitoris, which is greatly appreciated.
This is also really great for the women because she has total control over how deeply and how hard she is
penetrated. We women of the 21st century like control. She can also position herself in many ways that can
stimulate all different parts of her vagina.
The most common version of the woman on top position is with the man lying flat on his back, while the woman
kneels down and straddles his penis, with her knees on either side of his hips. With the woman in this position
she can control the focus of stimulation by leaning forward or backward. Leaning forward gives more clitoral
stimulation and leaning backward increases vaginal stimulation. This also allows for that all important eye
contact and kiss ability. She also has the option of being a little dominant, holding her lovers arms down while
riding him. The man benefits from this too because his hands can wonder fondling her breasts or just simply
enjoying the show being put on for him.
The woman can also straddle her partner the same way, but backwards, facing away from her lover. This is
very stimulating for the man, because the more the woman bends forward towards her lovers toes, her
penetrated vagina and anus are totally exposed for the man to see. And if the woman is into a little anal play,
the man can reach up and tickle or lightly rub her anus. But most importantly, there is more pressure put on the
penis which is added pleasure.
Personally, I really like this position because I get to control how deeply and how hard I’m penetrated. I also like
to put on a show for my man, so I believe it gets rave reviews from the both of us. This little bit of domination is
quite a turn on too and it's really awesome because there's plenty of room for me to use my Hitachi Magic
Wand and my boyfriend loves to see me have an orgasm while riding him and using the Wand. It's intense
pleasure for me and a totally hot show for him!
My boyfriend and I love to spice up this position with the Cube and Wedge Combo Liberator Shapes. Position
the Cube on the floor at next the bed and take the Wedge and put it on the bed at the edge. Then the man can
sit down, putting his butt on the Cube and lay back against the Wedge on the bed. This positions him very
comfortably in angled up position allowing him to see all the action clearly, giving him visual stimulation, but also
keeps him close to you for that intimate contact. This combination rocks for us women because we can very
easily straddle our guys with our feet very comfortably on the floor. By using the cube, it doesn't take us a ton
of leg muscles to ride him like a porn star because we're not putting undue pressure on our legs. The cube is at
the proper height for most of us to be very comfortable. You can easily ride him facing him or facing away.
Yummy!
The Cube is also great for many other spicy sex position combinations. Your man can also sit straight up on the
Cube, not leaning against anything and then you straddle him, either facing him or facing away. Either way, the
same thing goes, you're both very comfortably seated, so as the woman being on top, you have easy control in
riding him. This offers the most closeness and intimacy.
Side by Side
Side by Side or "Spooning", can be very intimate and are good for all those cuddlers out there. It allows you to
be very close to your lover. It does mirror all the 'on-top' positions except the partners are now lying on their
sides. If the man faces the woman and the woman has her back towards the man, he can actually hug her as
he penetrates. It really does bring cuddling and sex together at the same time. It also been known as the
sneaky, the man is gonna wake his woman up in the morning with a little poking, position. It’s fine for a little
wakeup call, but some men don’t realize that you need to lube up your penis before inserting it into a sleeping
vagina. Hey, I’m only mentioning it because I see a need.
I personally like this position for those early morning quickies. I mean, lets not lie, we all are a little stinky in the
morning and have some really kicking breath, so this allows both partners to have a nice cuddly quickie without
knocking each others socks off with bad breath. You know what I mean? Just a thought I wanted to share.
Sometimes the Spooning position doesn't allow for the deepest penetration. In order to go deeper, I have found
it helpful as I'm laying on my side, facing away from boyfriend, to also bend forward so that my body is in a sort
of L shape. I can't bend completely in half, but I'm hoping you see what I'm getting at. By doing this, I have
opened myself up more down there and can kind also push myself up against my boyfriend a little easier as he
penetrates me.
Side by Side is also a great position to use a vibrator. You're facing away from your man anyway, so why not
get a good vibe in there to give you some extra pleasure. I have found that as I'm bent forward, as mentioned
just above, I grab my Hitachi Magic Wand and on the low setting, put it right between my legs. It doesn't
interrupt penetration at all and not only do I get some extremely pleasant vibrations, but my boyfriend enjoys
them as well.
Don't give up on this position. Just try to bend and more your body a little and I'm sure you'll find a subtle
difference that will make a big difference in your enjoyment of it.
Side by Side or "Spooning", can be very intimate and are good for all those cuddlers out there. It allows you to
be very close to your lover. It does mirror all the 'on-top' positions except the partners are now lying on their
sides. If the man faces the woman and the woman has her back towards the man, he can actually hug her as
he penetrates. It really does bring cuddling and sex together at the same time. It also been known as the
sneaky, the man is gonna wake his woman up in the morning with a little poking, position. It’s fine for a little
wakeup call, but some men don’t realize that you need to lube up your penis before inserting it into a sleeping
vagina. Hey, I’m only mentioning it because I see a need.
I personally like this position for those early morning quickies. I mean, lets not lie, we all are a little stinky in the
morning and have some really kicking breath, so this allows both partners to have a nice cuddly quickie without
knocking each others socks off with bad breath. You know what I mean? Just a thought I wanted to share.
Sometimes the Spooning position doesn't allow for the deepest penetration. In order to go deeper, I have found
it helpful as I'm laying on my side, facing away from boyfriend, to also bend forward so that my body is in a sort
of L shape. I can't bend completely in half, but I'm hoping you see what I'm getting at. By doing this, I have
opened myself up more down there and can kind also push myself up against my boyfriend a little easier as he
penetrates me.
Side by Side is also a great position to use a vibrator. You're facing away from your man anyway, so why not
get a good vibe in there to give you some extra pleasure. I have found that as I'm bent forward, as mentioned
just above, I grab my Hitachi Magic Wand and on the low setting, put it right between my legs. It doesn't
interrupt penetration at all and not only do I get some extremely pleasant vibrations, but my boyfriend enjoys
them as well.
Don't give up on this position. Just try to bend and more your body a little and I'm sure you'll find a subtle
difference that will make a big difference in your enjoyment of it.
Sixty Nine
Sixty Nine allows us to both go down on each other at the same time. Oral sex is a great activity! I know that
when I first starting having sex with my boyfriend, I liked sixty nine the best because we were both pleasing each
other at the same time. My boyfriend has always and still does love to go down on me. I think that’s the absolute
best thing in the world, now. But at one time, I was concerned and it was an issue. Because he would give me
so much attention and I’d give him very little. So sixty nine, at that time, was a very good solution. Although, my
real problem was being insecure in pleasing him with a blow job. Anyway, 69 can be very pleasurable for both
partners and can add a little bit of variety to oral sex.
Sixty Nine is a sexual position in which both partners engage in oral sex on each other at the same time. The
lovers usually lie one on top of the other or side by side.
The Vertical 69. Have the woman lay on her back, across the bed, with her head over the edge. The man
stands astride her face, then bends over and picks her up, with her legs around his neck. But be very careful
that there’s a good grip on the woman when orgasm is reached. So stay near the bed. The woman is supposed
to get a really neat sensation when she reaches orgasm with her head upside down. Be very careful, make
sure you are strong enough and fit enough to do this. Good luck and have fun getting into position!
For many couples, sixty-nine is an uncomfortable position, especially when there's an incredible size difference
between the partners. The Liberator Shapes Wedge and Ramp Combo has solved this dilemma and now Sixty
Nine is not only comfortable,but a lot of fun. By putting the Ramp and Wedge together, your man can lay down
across them while you easily straddle him. His head is raised so he can easily and comfortably have access to
your vagina while his precious bottom is raised up, so you don't have lean over at such a harse angle to get to
his penis. You can very comfortably kneel down and lean over. It's as simple as that...and you're not
smothering your lover either.
Sixty Nine allows us to both go down on each other at the same time. Oral sex is a great activity! I know that
when I first starting having sex with my boyfriend, I liked sixty nine the best because we were both pleasing each
other at the same time. My boyfriend has always and still does love to go down on me. I think that’s the absolute
best thing in the world, now. But at one time, I was concerned and it was an issue. Because he would give me
so much attention and I’d give him very little. So sixty nine, at that time, was a very good solution. Although, my
real problem was being insecure in pleasing him with a blow job. Anyway, 69 can be very pleasurable for both
partners and can add a little bit of variety to oral sex.
Sixty Nine is a sexual position in which both partners engage in oral sex on each other at the same time. The
lovers usually lie one on top of the other or side by side.
The Vertical 69. Have the woman lay on her back, across the bed, with her head over the edge. The man
stands astride her face, then bends over and picks her up, with her legs around his neck. But be very careful
that there’s a good grip on the woman when orgasm is reached. So stay near the bed. The woman is supposed
to get a really neat sensation when she reaches orgasm with her head upside down. Be very careful, make
sure you are strong enough and fit enough to do this. Good luck and have fun getting into position!
For many couples, sixty-nine is an uncomfortable position, especially when there's an incredible size difference
between the partners. The Liberator Shapes Wedge and Ramp Combo has solved this dilemma and now Sixty
Nine is not only comfortable,but a lot of fun. By putting the Ramp and Wedge together, your man can lay down
across them while you easily straddle him. His head is raised so he can easily and comfortably have access to
your vagina while his precious bottom is raised up, so you don't have lean over at such a harse angle to get to
his penis. You can very comfortably kneel down and lean over. It's as simple as that...and you're not
smothering your lover either.
Rear Entry
Rear Entry or "Doggie Style", has seemed to gain popularity over the years. I’m not sure if it’s because it’s the
closest thing to anal sex without really having it or if you just feel so dirty naughty doing it. Either way, for those
that may not already know, the Rear Entry position is when the man penetrates the woman's vagina from
behind. Let's discuss.
There's a few important physical reasons why women love doing it doggie style. First, this position allows for
deep penetration. With the woman's body being so angled, the g-spot can be stimulated by the thrusting of the
penis. Depending on how far bent over the woman is and how fast the man is thrusting, his testicles kind of slap
against her vagina which can be really very exciting.
Clitoral stimulation is possible by both partners. The man can reach down, while thrusting, and rub her clitoris
and massge her vulva. Or if the woman prefers, she can reach down and rub her own clitoris or vulva. This is
also a great position for vibrator use because the clitoris is so accessible. The woman can wear a strap-on
vibrator, like the Micro Butterfly or use her own hands which are completely free and available for holding onto
a vibrator.
This is also a great position to introduce vibrators into sex . If the woman feels awkward about using a vibrator
in front of her lover, the rear entryposition is a great position to start in because the man isn't staring down at
her holding the vibrator against her clit. I have found that a vibrator like the Pocket Rocket are great additions
because they're small, they don't look phallic at all and they pack a good deal of power. However, this position
also allows you to use the Hitachi Magic Wand without causing any kind of disturbance since your clitoris is
totally exposed and available.
Many therapists suggest this position to couples who are trying to conceive because once the man ejaculates
the semen is initially released near the mouth of the cervix, due to the deep penetration. Some pregnant
women find more comfort having intercourse in the rear entry position rather than missionary postion.
But those are not the only reasons women like the rear entry position...Besides physical, there's also mental
stimulation that women get off on. Some women feel like they're being taken by their lover. There's an
animalistic, I'm going to grab you and do you, sort of excitement to it. A feeling of helplessness, that I can't get
away. Like I said earlier, it's also an alternative to anal sex. It's that, I'm a dirty girl taking it from behind with my
butt so exposed feeling that some women get off on. Anal sex is becoming a more accepted practice, but there
is still a taboo surrounding it and I think the Rear Entry Position is the closest alternative.
Speaking of naughty, I have found that the Liberator Ramp Cushion helps to make this position truely naughty.
Just by leaning over on it, my legs are completely spread, my butt is raised up in the air and my vagina is totally
exposed. There's no way that I can't be exposed with this cushion! When I tried to get in this position without the
Liberator Ramp, I couldn't hold it and sex would become very uncomfortable for me. However, with the addition
of the Ramp, all I have to do is lay over the cushion and I'm in perfect position and it feels sooo good. My
boyfriend loves it too because it raises my butt high enough for him so he doesn't have to try to lean over while
thrusting either. Plus, he really likes the view...and I do too.
Another favorite way to use the Ramp is to put it at the edge of the bed, with the flattest end at the edge and
highest angle is opposite you. All you have to do is stand at that edge of the bed and gently and comfortably
lean onto the Ramp. There's no kneeling or anything like that. So this is more comfortable for those who don't
want to lean over. Also, you're not as exposed as in using it the other way, but still very easily acessible and
very comfortable.
Yes, there are a lot of good reasons to start exploring the rear entry position, but as with anything, if there's
good points, there's bad ones too. Most women have issues about their body, they're too fat, too thin or they
think their butt's too big. So a position like this makes them feel very exposed and, to them, highlights the fact
that their butt's big, regardless of whether it is or it isn't. These women are missing the boat on this one, but for
a woman to really enjoy sex and even reach orgasm, she has to mentally feel good. If she's worried that her
butt looks too big, sex will not be a pleasurable experience for her.
Another reason some women avoid getting down on all fours is because there's no intimacy. If you're not
looking at your lover, you're not making a very personal, very intimate connection and that's extremely
important. Once again, women really have to be in the right state of mind to just let go and experience
pleasure, so if an intimate connection is necessary, rear entry may not be the position to get into. And to that I
suggest trying it lying side by side. That will definitely add some intimacy.
It's demeaning to women, is another popular reason floating around out there in women's mind. Somehow
women feel like they're giving up control by being taken from behind. That's not true, because the man doesn't
have to be the one in control. He doesn't have to be the one to do the thrusting. He can stand there and the
woman can push up against him. It's similar to the reverse cowgirl, woman-on-top position but turn it 90 degrees
counter clockwise.
If a woman has a tipped uterus or a very well endowed partner, this position can be painful and/or
uncomfortable for her because his penis will be hitting her uterus or cervix upon every thrust. If that's the case,
your lover should really control how deeply he penetrates. Shallow thrusting may be in order.
Men are very visual creatures, so this position gives him very naughty views. He has a great view of his penis
penetrating his lover's vagina. He also has a very nice view of her exposed buttocks and; by simply tilting his
head to the right or left, he can also see the her swinging breasts, which for a breast man, is extremely exciting.
Besides the visual stimulation, there's also ease of stimulating. Just because he's not facing his lover, doesn't
mean she's out of touch. Men can easily reach around to fondle his lover's breasts, clitoris or vulva. If she's into
any kind of anal play, her anus is right in front of him for the taking. Some women like their hair pulled and he
can easily do that in this position too.
Another plus to the rear entry position for men is the control that he can have. Deeply penetrating a woman,
that deep, hard thrusting action can be very exciting for some men. Most men fantasize about grabbing their
lover from behind and entering them. Its animalistic features is what makes it such a desired position to be in.
As far as physical exersion goes, there's not too much to it. There's less work for the man in this position than
the traditional missionary position. And if the woman takes the driver's seat, he just has to stand there, hold on
and enjoy the view. Now, depending how hard and fast she rides him will depend on how difficult it is to stand in
that one position. With some women, you really have to hold on.
Many men don't need that intimate connection that some women need. One thing I have learned is that some
men don't like to be ridden hard and fast in that position. Sometimes it's just too much, too quickly and it will
cause them to reach orgasm very fast and they either, didn't get to feel that much because of the fact that it
was too hard, or it happened so quickly they missed it. And still some men find it such an exciting position,
because of all the reasons above, that it's just too much stimulation all at once, seeing such an arousing view
and it feeling so good. But that's no reason to not do it. That could just be negative, but most men still do it, with
no complaints.
There are numerous ways to spice up the traditional rear entry position. It can be done with both partners
standing, the woman bends over. It can be done lying down side by side, for comfort the woman can put her
bottom leg between her lover's leg. The woman can kneel on the floor and lay the upper half of her body
across the bed. There's also the wheelbarrow position in which the man lifts and supports the woman's legs
while she holds on to the back of a chair and rests her forearms on the seat of the chair. Her legs are also
wrapped around his waist for addtional support. PLEASE NOTE: Make sure you are both strong enough and
know exactly what you are doing before even attempting this.
Another little manuever to try once the man penetrates the woman is for the woman to bring her legs together
and squeeze slowly and gently. This provides hightened stimulation for both partners. Just make sure the man
has penetrated the woman and that she squeezes gently, as to not strangle the man's penis. By the woman
tightening her muscles she experiences more stimulation and he experiences a tighter place for thrusting.
Since men are visual creatures, put on a show. Gyrate against him, slap your own buttocks. Grab your breasts.
If you can reach around and grab his testicles, do so, but gently.
This may seem strange to some, but the Rear Entry position can be a difficult position to make happen. The
woman bends over and spreads her legs a bit and her lover has easy access. That's just not so. Many men,
more than you realize, have great difficulty in finding the vaginal opening. Too often the woman has to try to
contort herself and really lift her butt in the air to help her lover get his penis inside. My boyfriend and I have
found that the Liberator Shapes, the Wedge or the Ramp, make this position incredibly easy and comfortable.
The Wedge Cushion puts your butt at a slight angle upwards with no real effort on the woman's part. All she
has to do is lean onto the cushion and she's perfectly in place. Her butt is properly propped up and her lover
can actually see her hole a little better on his own. The Wedge cushion allows for maximum closeness so that
the man can easily lean down towards her to kiss and hold her.
By Ann Andriani
Rear Entry or "Doggie Style", has seemed to gain popularity over the years. I’m not sure if it’s because it’s the
closest thing to anal sex without really having it or if you just feel so dirty naughty doing it. Either way, for those
that may not already know, the Rear Entry position is when the man penetrates the woman's vagina from
behind. Let's discuss.
There's a few important physical reasons why women love doing it doggie style. First, this position allows for
deep penetration. With the woman's body being so angled, the g-spot can be stimulated by the thrusting of the
penis. Depending on how far bent over the woman is and how fast the man is thrusting, his testicles kind of slap
against her vagina which can be really very exciting.
Clitoral stimulation is possible by both partners. The man can reach down, while thrusting, and rub her clitoris
and massge her vulva. Or if the woman prefers, she can reach down and rub her own clitoris or vulva. This is
also a great position for vibrator use because the clitoris is so accessible. The woman can wear a strap-on
vibrator, like the Micro Butterfly or use her own hands which are completely free and available for holding onto
a vibrator.
This is also a great position to introduce vibrators into sex . If the woman feels awkward about using a vibrator
in front of her lover, the rear entryposition is a great position to start in because the man isn't staring down at
her holding the vibrator against her clit. I have found that a vibrator like the Pocket Rocket are great additions
because they're small, they don't look phallic at all and they pack a good deal of power. However, this position
also allows you to use the Hitachi Magic Wand without causing any kind of disturbance since your clitoris is
totally exposed and available.
Many therapists suggest this position to couples who are trying to conceive because once the man ejaculates
the semen is initially released near the mouth of the cervix, due to the deep penetration. Some pregnant
women find more comfort having intercourse in the rear entry position rather than missionary postion.
But those are not the only reasons women like the rear entry position...Besides physical, there's also mental
stimulation that women get off on. Some women feel like they're being taken by their lover. There's an
animalistic, I'm going to grab you and do you, sort of excitement to it. A feeling of helplessness, that I can't get
away. Like I said earlier, it's also an alternative to anal sex. It's that, I'm a dirty girl taking it from behind with my
butt so exposed feeling that some women get off on. Anal sex is becoming a more accepted practice, but there
is still a taboo surrounding it and I think the Rear Entry Position is the closest alternative.
Speaking of naughty, I have found that the Liberator Ramp Cushion helps to make this position truely naughty.
Just by leaning over on it, my legs are completely spread, my butt is raised up in the air and my vagina is totally
exposed. There's no way that I can't be exposed with this cushion! When I tried to get in this position without the
Liberator Ramp, I couldn't hold it and sex would become very uncomfortable for me. However, with the addition
of the Ramp, all I have to do is lay over the cushion and I'm in perfect position and it feels sooo good. My
boyfriend loves it too because it raises my butt high enough for him so he doesn't have to try to lean over while
thrusting either. Plus, he really likes the view...and I do too.
Another favorite way to use the Ramp is to put it at the edge of the bed, with the flattest end at the edge and
highest angle is opposite you. All you have to do is stand at that edge of the bed and gently and comfortably
lean onto the Ramp. There's no kneeling or anything like that. So this is more comfortable for those who don't
want to lean over. Also, you're not as exposed as in using it the other way, but still very easily acessible and
very comfortable.
Yes, there are a lot of good reasons to start exploring the rear entry position, but as with anything, if there's
good points, there's bad ones too. Most women have issues about their body, they're too fat, too thin or they
think their butt's too big. So a position like this makes them feel very exposed and, to them, highlights the fact
that their butt's big, regardless of whether it is or it isn't. These women are missing the boat on this one, but for
a woman to really enjoy sex and even reach orgasm, she has to mentally feel good. If she's worried that her
butt looks too big, sex will not be a pleasurable experience for her.
Another reason some women avoid getting down on all fours is because there's no intimacy. If you're not
looking at your lover, you're not making a very personal, very intimate connection and that's extremely
important. Once again, women really have to be in the right state of mind to just let go and experience
pleasure, so if an intimate connection is necessary, rear entry may not be the position to get into. And to that I
suggest trying it lying side by side. That will definitely add some intimacy.
It's demeaning to women, is another popular reason floating around out there in women's mind. Somehow
women feel like they're giving up control by being taken from behind. That's not true, because the man doesn't
have to be the one in control. He doesn't have to be the one to do the thrusting. He can stand there and the
woman can push up against him. It's similar to the reverse cowgirl, woman-on-top position but turn it 90 degrees
counter clockwise.
If a woman has a tipped uterus or a very well endowed partner, this position can be painful and/or
uncomfortable for her because his penis will be hitting her uterus or cervix upon every thrust. If that's the case,
your lover should really control how deeply he penetrates. Shallow thrusting may be in order.
Men are very visual creatures, so this position gives him very naughty views. He has a great view of his penis
penetrating his lover's vagina. He also has a very nice view of her exposed buttocks and; by simply tilting his
head to the right or left, he can also see the her swinging breasts, which for a breast man, is extremely exciting.
Besides the visual stimulation, there's also ease of stimulating. Just because he's not facing his lover, doesn't
mean she's out of touch. Men can easily reach around to fondle his lover's breasts, clitoris or vulva. If she's into
any kind of anal play, her anus is right in front of him for the taking. Some women like their hair pulled and he
can easily do that in this position too.
Another plus to the rear entry position for men is the control that he can have. Deeply penetrating a woman,
that deep, hard thrusting action can be very exciting for some men. Most men fantasize about grabbing their
lover from behind and entering them. Its animalistic features is what makes it such a desired position to be in.
As far as physical exersion goes, there's not too much to it. There's less work for the man in this position than
the traditional missionary position. And if the woman takes the driver's seat, he just has to stand there, hold on
and enjoy the view. Now, depending how hard and fast she rides him will depend on how difficult it is to stand in
that one position. With some women, you really have to hold on.
Many men don't need that intimate connection that some women need. One thing I have learned is that some
men don't like to be ridden hard and fast in that position. Sometimes it's just too much, too quickly and it will
cause them to reach orgasm very fast and they either, didn't get to feel that much because of the fact that it
was too hard, or it happened so quickly they missed it. And still some men find it such an exciting position,
because of all the reasons above, that it's just too much stimulation all at once, seeing such an arousing view
and it feeling so good. But that's no reason to not do it. That could just be negative, but most men still do it, with
no complaints.
There are numerous ways to spice up the traditional rear entry position. It can be done with both partners
standing, the woman bends over. It can be done lying down side by side, for comfort the woman can put her
bottom leg between her lover's leg. The woman can kneel on the floor and lay the upper half of her body
across the bed. There's also the wheelbarrow position in which the man lifts and supports the woman's legs
while she holds on to the back of a chair and rests her forearms on the seat of the chair. Her legs are also
wrapped around his waist for addtional support. PLEASE NOTE: Make sure you are both strong enough and
know exactly what you are doing before even attempting this.
Another little manuever to try once the man penetrates the woman is for the woman to bring her legs together
and squeeze slowly and gently. This provides hightened stimulation for both partners. Just make sure the man
has penetrated the woman and that she squeezes gently, as to not strangle the man's penis. By the woman
tightening her muscles she experiences more stimulation and he experiences a tighter place for thrusting.
Since men are visual creatures, put on a show. Gyrate against him, slap your own buttocks. Grab your breasts.
If you can reach around and grab his testicles, do so, but gently.
This may seem strange to some, but the Rear Entry position can be a difficult position to make happen. The
woman bends over and spreads her legs a bit and her lover has easy access. That's just not so. Many men,
more than you realize, have great difficulty in finding the vaginal opening. Too often the woman has to try to
contort herself and really lift her butt in the air to help her lover get his penis inside. My boyfriend and I have
found that the Liberator Shapes, the Wedge or the Ramp, make this position incredibly easy and comfortable.
The Wedge Cushion puts your butt at a slight angle upwards with no real effort on the woman's part. All she
has to do is lean onto the cushion and she's perfectly in place. Her butt is properly propped up and her lover
can actually see her hole a little better on his own. The Wedge cushion allows for maximum closeness so that
the man can easily lean down towards her to kiss and hold her.
By Ann Andriani
